Relationship psychology tests are passed together. Test games for lovers

I liked the test very much. There was even a feeling as if everyone knew about me. In a relationship with a guy, I was not particularly lucky, so I decided to take this test. But now I know that we were simply incompatible with him. The test helped me a lot.

I usually don't believe the various tests, but the Pair Compatibility Test changed my mind. I liked answering the questions very much, and I was pleased with the result. I love tests where the result is described specifically for you, but it happened that the result is written in such a way that you sit and think about the result. And here everything is simple and clear. I highly recommend it.

My friends often tell me that all tests are complete nonsense. But I don’t believe it. And with pleasure I pass a lot of different tests. The other tests didn't really inspire me to take any action, but here the result amazed me. It felt as if they knew me and knew what was happening in my life. I was very impressed.

The test is very interesting. Questions are posed clearly and competently, and it is a pleasure to answer them. And the result is simply amazing. I really went through a difficult breakup. And it seems in a new relationship, but the sediment remained and before going further in the relationship, I decided to go through. In a word, the test was right. And according to the result, everything was described perfectly.

My husband and I began to quarrel often. However, this has never been the case. And a friend advised me to take this test. At first, of course, I doubted, but in the end I dared to pass. There was nothing complicated. But the result shocked me. According to the result, everything that is happening with us now was described, also with advice. Now I trust tests 100%.

I stumbled upon the test "On the compatibility of a pair" by chance. I happily answered all the questions, which were not so many. All questions are very interesting and quite simple. Anyone can answer them. Of course, it was interesting what the result would be. The result amazed me. Everything is described quite clearly and, moreover, believable. I strongly advise everyone to take this test.

The one question that keeps women from falling asleep in the middle of the night the most is: Are we really meant to be together? We'll always be together? Are we soul mates destined for eternal love? Or will he break my heart?

Everyone wants to find true love, but it's not easy. As the saying goes, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. If you are tired of frogs and ready to move into the prince stage of your dating life, love, compatibility test can help. This will help you determine what you are actually looking for in a potential partner. Once you know what you are looking for, you will be one step closer to finding true love. Then you can stop kissing frogs and move in with a prince or princess.

If you are in love with someone and you want to test your Compatibility with that person, online compatibility tests are what you might need. These compatibility tests clarify any questions that may arise in your mind about how compatible your relationship with your partner is in the future. If your compatibility rate doesn't turn out to be good, you can analyze it yourself and take steps to make the relationship better between you and your partner. Love tests are important because they give you an idea of whether the person you have chosen as a partner is right for you. These tests explain the state of your relationship with your partner and provide a detailed analysis of what it might be in the future.

Why is it so difficult to answer? Well, sometimes it's because the relationship may seem like it should be in the beginning, but it fades over time. And then you try so hard to put everything back in place. But no matter how hard you try, nothing comes of it. Or maybe he's not fully committed to you ... but you know, if he could only see how perfect you are together, everything would be fine.

One thing that works across the board: you get lost in the emotions of the situation and can't see things logically and objectively. This happens to both men and women. This is not your fault. Our emotions are overwhelming and cloud our judgment. That's why we've created this helpful compatibility test for two, so you can get an unbiased answer based on facts, not emotions.

Take this very quick couple compatibility test, a very simple test, and find out if you really should be together ... or if it's going to break your heart. Be sure to read each question carefully and think carefully before answering to get the most accurate results possible.

This test has 15 questions to ask you about your relationship. As long as you are honest with your answers, you will get extremely (even shockingly) accurate results and know for sure if your relationship has long-term potential or not.

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6 questions with which the experienced family psychologist Elena Anatolyevna Ilyina begins the session.

For 7 years of working with couples, I realized what questions should be asked at the first meeting. It immediately becomes clear to me and the clients how strong and healthy this relationship is and what needs to be worked on.

Answer the questions "yes", "yes, but I would like more" and "no". Ideally, both partners write down the answers and compare them - with this exercise I start working with almost every pair.

Couple test

1. Do you feel that your partner respects you?

The partner listens to your opinion, asks what do you want? Are you really together, on an equal footing, make joint decisions?

2. Do you get positive emotions from your partner?

Do you have enough praise and compliments from your partner? Do you get enough affection, tenderness, care?

3. Is there an intimacy between you (including sex) that satisfies you?

Intimacy is not only about sexual intercourse, it is an emotional background between two people:

feeling that I am desired when I walk by a partner
touching
views
kissing
messages during the day: love, want, miss, you are the most

4. Is there mutual help, mutual support in these relationships?

Will your partner understand and support if you have difficulties? At work, with parents, children, with health, with a girlfriend (boyfriend)?

5. Did you agree on the money?

Did you split the budget or just don't pay attention to it (both are comfortable)? Or constantly quarrel over finances:

because someone is not working
does not earn enough
spends a lot
does not want to keep a budget and save money
does not invest in purchases that both need

6. Do you and your partner have common interests?

Interests should not overlap one hundred percent. In a strong relationship, there are one or more things to do together “on high”:

watching movies and discussing the plot or actors
walk in the park or in the mall
gossip about acquaintances or passers-by
discover new countries or wallow at sea

What to do with responses

If in the test for a couple you answered “yes” to all the questions, everything is fine. Make sure your partner is comfortable with everything too.

At least one “no” or an uncertain “yes” is a reason to start working on a relationship. Talk to your partner, compare the answers. If you can't talk and you can't hear each other, trust a specialist. A family psychologist will "build bridges", translate to your partner what you say (and vice versa). In my practice, this solves all problems in every second pair.

The more “no” in the test results for two, the less positive connects you with a partner. If all the answers are “no,” wonder why you ended up in this relationship? How did you feel when you met? Where did it go?

This test for two is the first step. You realized the problem, tried to formulate it. Then there are three options:

Postpone solving the problem until later
Try to decide on your own, talk
Seek help from a specialist

Each has its own advantages and disadvantages. But if there is something good in your relationship, don't wait for it to fade away or drown in fights. Better make an appointment with a family therapist.

Test game for two lovers

Want to test your feelings? Take our test

Game rules and conditions - test

The lovers answer the questions in turn. If the answer is yes, then you can move on to the next question, and if negative, you skip. If you are unable to answer either "yes" or "no", then you miss the move twice. The game ends the moment one of the players answers all the questions.

To pass the test more honestly, answer on a separate sheet of paper without showing each other the answers. Have one of you read the questions aloud, mentioning their numbers as well. Agree how much time is allotted for the answer, for example, 30 seconds.

You can play in pairs, but in this case the girl and the boy must find a compromise answer.

Questions:

1. Do you prefer to trust him (her) with only small troubles? (yes, no) 2. Are lovers always a little crazy? (yes, no) 3. If you didn’t like the gift of a friend (girlfriend), tell me about it? (yes, no) 4. Is the secret of your couple's stability in strong love? (yes, no) 5. If a stranger meets you in a crowd, will he know that you are in love? (yes, no) 6. Are you the center of each other's interests? (yes, no) 7. Is it best to make love in bed? (yes, no) 8. Have most of your friend's friends become your friends? (yes, no) 9. Are you able to appreciate the irony and humor of your boyfriend (girlfriend)? (yes, no) 10. Do you make little lies from time to time to avoid unnecessary conflicts? (yes, no) 11. Do you heed the advice of a friend (girlfriend) when buying things, clothes? (yes, no) 12. Are you able to appreciate the little sacrifices of your friend? (yes, no) 13. Do you think that going on vacation separately means to emphasize your independence? (yes, no) 14. Do you think that love alone is enough for happiness? (yes, no) 15. For a woman, the hearth is the throne from which she rules the world. Is it so? (yes, no) 16. The main thing in life is mutual understanding. Do you agree? (yes, no) 17. Do you lose interest in your partner immediately after intercourse? (yes, no) 18. Have you ever done things with your partner that you would have judged yourself if they touched you? (yes, no) 19. The life of a couple is a constant search for agreement, and not defending their own innocence. What do you think? (yes, no) 20. If your partner is criticized behind your back, will you stand up for him? (yes, no) 21. Do you admit the idea that your partner is in a relationship with friends you don't know? (yes, no) 22. Is your beloved (favorite) part of yourself? (Not really)

Let's summarize:

1. You finished the game at the same time and all your answers matched. Your pair matches the classic models - Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde. It looks like you won the top prize in the love lottery. But your happiness and harmony can be the envy of you.

2. At the finish line you are separated by one or two points. You certainly love each other, but your views on love are different. Your love will know its ups and downs. And some problems can be a test for a relationship. In general, life will live up to the African proverb: love is like rain, and rare drops can stir up a river.

3. The difference at the finish line is from three to five points. It seems that you do not have any special illusions of the sentimental plan. But in general, you are satisfied with the relationship, although the feeling of "the seventh heaven is gone." Anyway, if you do decide to break up, it will happen without drama.

4. The difference is more than five points. Conflicts are inevitable, and therefore it is best not to drive them inside. Most likely, any of your disputes turns into a mutual demonstration of strength and a form of self-affirmation. But do not forget that each of you has a right to relaxation. Tip: Bury the hatchet and pause your relationship. This manner of communication is also part of the relationship within the couple.

Test "How well does your couple know each other"

What do you know about your girlfriend? What does your girlfriend know about you? With the help of our test, you will find out a frighteningly or, on the contrary, reassuringly accurate answer to these two questions.

This test is not only a great way to find out what you really know about each other, but also a great excuse to get to know each other better!

Even if you and your partner raised three children together (by the way, whose children are these?), It is not a fact that you know each other's habits well. Without this knowledge, relationships will never be as productive and happy as possible, says Dr. John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles That Make Marriages Work. From this book, we borrowed the test that we recommend all couples to pass.

How the test works

You will need five sheets of paper and two pencils. Okay, from one sheet - it is superfluous - make a paper boat. And pencils can be replaced with pens or, what the hell is not joking, with felt-tip pens. You will take the test one at a time. One asks a question aloud, both silently write down the answer, not peeping at each other's papers. For example, you ask a girl, "What am I most afraid of?" She writes down her own answer: "Giant spiders with tentacles and light music." In the meantime, you write down your correct version: "Your mother." And so you report on all twenty-five questions. Then turn the papers over and set them aside.

Take the next two pieces of paper and follow the same procedure, but with the girl as the defendant. She asks: "What am I most afraid of?" You silently write down: "Your mother." The girl silently writes: "My mother." And so on for all questions.

When you have finished interviewing each other, turn over the pieces of paper and check the results (but first, of course, be horrified at the answers). Count the number of exact matches. Accurate in semantic meaning, and not in the form of a statement. For example, if you answered “badminton” to the question about your hobby, and the girl said “a ridiculous game with a net, rackets and such funny balls in skirts,” it is still a coincidence. It counts. For each correct answer - 1 point.

Questions

1. My favorite dessert
2. What is my shoe size?
3. What am I most afraid of?
4. How old is my mom?
5. What is my blood type?
6. What turns me on about sex?
7. Name two of my closest friends
8. Do I have a hobby? Which?
9. What will I get out of the fire first, besides you, documents and pets?
10. My favorite movie
11. My worst childhood memory
12. What time of day do I like to have sex the most?
13. How do I prefer to spend my evenings?
14. How do I want to be buried?
15. A dish I can't live without
16. What gift would I like the most?
17. What kind of food do I hate?
18. My favorite band
19. What coffee do I prefer?
20. In which circle did I study as a child?
21. What kind of literary genre do I like?
22. What do I want to do before I die?
23. My favorite weather?
24. Continue the phrase "You hate when I ..."
25. Do I have allergies?

results

How many points did you score?
0-4
You are very far from each other

How often do you communicate? Perhaps it is worth breaking away from watching TV shows together and paying attention to each other. Although, with all due respect to Dr. Gottman, what could bring you closer than watching the show together? Anyway, what else do you need from a relationship?

5-11
Greetings, strong middlings!

You know just enough about each other to sleep well and not embarrass yourself at a family dinner, confusing the girl's mother with her cousin. You certainly cannot be called strangers. But you still have an amazing, full of discoveries, magical way of getting to know each other ahead of you. Walk carefully.

12-17
Your relationship is enviable!

And surely your friends are doing this, once again watching your girlfriend serve you creme brulee, although you have not even had time to say “cream”. But in this kingdom of mutual understanding and harmony there is a subtle point: it is necessary to monitor the protection of your personal space. In addition, you can periodically surprise your partner by throwing aside the pan of crème brulee and demanding the Napoleon cake.

18+
You are very, well, very, close

A similar degree of intimacy occurs in people who have lived together for more than a dozen years. Maybe you will stop shocking the nursing home and are legally married to your permanent grandmother? Obviously, you have every chance of a happy life until the grave.

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